ildikocsamayJan 47 minMusings on BDSM & the dark erotic arts:#3 Erotic Relationships are about Power, not Love.Erotic relationships are not about love. Erotic relationships are fundamentally about power. Get the power dynamic right - and love &...
ildikocsamaySep 29, 20238 minMusings on BDSM & the dark erotic arts: #2 Your Submission will set you free. I have always been a very layered person. I have lived and flourished within the tension of seemingly opposing forces. I am a creative...
ildikocsamayAug 9, 20234 minMusings on BDSM & the dark erotic arts: #1 You are not a Dom. You are a f*cking disaster.I am really tired that I even have to write a text like this - but here it goes. BASIC BDSM-ETIQUETTE for those out there who claim to be...
ildikocsamayJul 1, 20233 minYou should be ashamed of yourself.We live in a society that has become shameless, in a world that has lost its libido. Lately, it has become terribly trendy to openly...