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Musings on BDSM & the dark erotic arts:#3 Erotic Relationships are about Power, not Love.

Erotic relationships are not about love. Erotic relationships are fundamentally about power. Get the power dynamic right - and love &...

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Musings on BDSM & the dark erotic arts: #2 Your Submission will set you free.

I have always been a very layered person. I have lived and flourished within the tension of seemingly opposing forces. I am a creative...

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Musings on BDSM & the dark erotic arts: #1 You are not a Dom. You are a f*cking disaster.

I am really tired that I even have to write a text like this - but here it goes. BASIC BDSM-ETIQUETTE for those out there who claim to be...

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You should be ashamed of yourself.

We live in a society that has become shameless, in a world that has lost its libido. Lately, it has become terribly trendy to openly...

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Courtesan wisdom for a de-polarized world

My only job is to feel her. - On the power of carrying pleasure in the body. Let yourself sink back into the soft depths of the flesh...

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Eroticism & Creativity

I often get asked how I manage to be so creative. What I do to stay so resilient and alive during these crazy times. The truth is I have...

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How I Leave my Marks

I don´t call myself a coach, because it is not what I do. I am an intuitive, a poet, a sensualitst and a Tarot-reader. A half-hungarian...